At my work, when you get up to get yourself a cup of tea, it is customary to ask others around you if they want tea as well. This is one of my favorite things about my workplace…and now I know why: warm drinks foster human kindness (according to a research study).
Scientists set up experiments where a participant met a researcher in a lobby. The researcher walked in carrying a clipboard and a coffee cup and asked the participant to hold it for them. The cup was either hot or cold. The participants were then asked to evaluate ‘Person A’ on personality traits. Those holding the hot drink consistently evaluated the person as ‘warmer’.
Another scenario set up by researchers had participants hold a therapeutic hot or cold pack in a situation which appeared to them to be for evaluating the product. After holding it, for participating they were offered the option of a snapple for themselves or a $1 ice cream voucher for a friend. Those who were holding the hot pad more often chose the gift for a friend. The results held when the snapple was made the gift and the ice cream the reward for participating.
The research results suggest that the physical feeling of warmth is very closely related to the emotional feeling of warmth. Take away: if you want someone to like you, offer them a warm drink.
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